Do You Want To Open Up Your Relationship,
But Worry That It Will Ruin What You Already Have?
Discover The 4-Step Mehtod That Will Transform Your Biggest Non-Monogamy Fears & Doubts To Unshakable Security and Love
DEFY™️ Relationship Conformity
The Only Comprehensive, Self-Paced Course You Need To Exploring Non-Monogamy WITHOUT The Fear Of Judgment, Jealousy, Or Damaged Relationships
Do You Want To Open Up Your Relationship,
But Worry That It Will Ruin What You Already Have?
Discover The 4-Step Mehtod That Will Transform Your Biggest Non-Monogamy Fears & Doubts To Unshakable Security and Love
DEFY™️ Relationship Conformity
The Only Comprehensive, Self-Paced Course You Need To Exploring Non-Monogamy WITHOUT The Fear Of Judgment, Jealousy, Or Damaged Relationships
Do You Want To Open Up Your Relationship,
But Worry That It Will Ruin What You Already Have?
Discover The 4-Step Mehtod That Will Transform Your Biggest Non-Monogamy Fears & Doubts To Unshakable Security and Love
DEFY™️ Relationship Conformity
The Only Comprehensive, Self-Paced Course You Need To Exploring Non-Monogamy WITHOUT The Fear Of Judgment, Jealousy, Or Damaged Relationships
You Crave The Excitement Of ENM, But Those Nagging Doubts Are Hard To Ignore
Everytime you think about bringing up to your partner, anxiety flares, and the fear of rejection is crushing.
What if their reaction is disgust?
What if the person you love the most thinks you're broken, or worse, that you don't love them enough?
The fear SCREAMS inside you that exploring non-monogamy will destroy everything beautiful you've built.
And what about jealousy? Maybe you've labeled yourself "too jealous" to even try...
The self-doubt creeps in—why can't you handle this when others seem to navigate it effortlessly?
You Crave The Excitement Of ENM, But Those Nagging Doubts Are Hard To Ignore
Everytime you think about bringing up to your partner, anxiety flares, and the fear of rejection is crushing.
What if their reaction is disgust?
What if the person you love the most thinks you're broken, or worse, that you don't love them enough?
The fear SCREAMS inside you that exploring non-monogamy will destroy everything beautiful you've built.
And what about jealousy? Maybe you've labeled yourself "too jealous" to even try...
The self-doubt creeps in—why can't you handle this when others seem to navigate it effortlessly?
You Crave The Excitement Of ENM, But Those Nagging Doubts Are Hard To Ignore
Everytime you think about bringing up to your partner, anxiety flares, and the fear of rejection is crushing.
What if their reaction is disgust?
What if the person you love the most thinks you're broken, or worse, that you don't love them enough?
The fear SCREAMS inside you that exploring non-monogamy will destroy everything beautiful you've built.
And what about jealousy? Maybe you've labeled yourself "too jealous" to even try...
The self-doubt creeps in—why can't you handle this when others seem to navigate it effortlessly?
This Isn’t A Reason To Abandon Non-Monogamy.
It’s A Signal That You’re In Need Of A Roadmap.
Hi! I'm Dr. Rachael Meir, a Stanford-trained psychologist, sex and relationship coach, and as someone who's lived the non-monogamous journey… I get it.
It's easy to feel lost, alone, and ready to give up on this whole non-monogamy dream.
Been there, wrestled with those doubts more times than I can count. I know the sleepless nights, the self-criticism, the feeling of being trapped by fear.
But I also know the exhilarating joy of non-monogamy done right!
There's a path forward — and I’ve now dedicated my life’s work to helping folks like you get on it.
This Isn’t A Reason To Abandon Non-Monogamy.
It’s A Signal That You’re In Need Of A Roadmap.
Hi! I'm Dr. Rachael Meir, a Stanford-trained psychologist, sex and relationship coach, and as someone who's lived the non-monogamous journey… I get it.
It's easy to feel lost, alone, and ready to give up on this whole non-monogamy dream.
Been there, wrestled with those doubts more times than I can count. I know the sleepless nights, the self-criticism, the feeling of being trapped by fear.
But I also know the exhilarating joy of non-monogamy done right!
There's a path forward — and I’ve now dedicated my life’s work to helping folks like you get on it.
This Isn’t A Reason To Abandon Non-Monogamy.
It’s A Signal That You’re In Need Of A Roadmap.
Hi! I'm Dr. Rachael Meir, a Stanford-trained psychologist, sex and relationship coach, and as someone who's lived the non-monogamous journey… I get it.
It's easy to feel lost, alone, and ready to give up on this whole non-monogamy dream.
Been there, wrestled with those doubts more times than I can count. I know the sleepless nights, the self-criticism, the feeling of being trapped by fear.
But I also know the exhilarating joy of non-monogamy done right!
There's a path forward — and I’ve now dedicated my life’s work to helping folks like you get on it.
Introducing...
DEFY™️ Relationship Conformity
Your roadmap to move past the fear or judgment, jealousy, or damaged relationships in exploring non-monogamy.
In this comprehensive, self-paced course I use my proven 4-step DEFY™️ method which will help you:
Ditch the Doubts
Express with Ease
Find Your Fearless
Yes! To Your Authentic Self
I've helped hundreds of others already using this method. Now, let me guide you through this transformative experience. This isn't a dry textbook; it's your guide to building the fulfilling love life YOU deserve.
Introducing...
DEFY™️ Relationship Conformity
Your roadmap to move past the fear or judgment, jealousy, or damaged relationships in exploring non-monogamy.
In this comprehensive, self-paced course I use my proven 4-step DEFY™️ method which will help you:
Ditch the Doubts
Express with Ease
Find Your Fearless
Yes! To Your Authentic Self
I've helped hundreds of others already using this method. Now, let me guide you through this transformative experience. This isn't a dry textbook; it's your guide to building the fulfilling love life YOU deserve.
Introducing...
DEFY™️ Relationship Conformity
Your roadmap to move past the fear or judgment, jealousy, or damaged relationships in exploring non-monogamy.
In this comprehensive, self-paced course I use my proven 4-step DEFY™️ method which will help you:
Ditch the Doubts
Express with Ease
Find Your Fearless
Yes! To Your Authentic Self
I've helped hundreds of others already using this method. Now, let me guide you through this transformative experience. This isn't a dry textbook; it's your guide to building the fulfilling love life YOU deserve.
Real Stories From Real Students
After my 20•minute meeting with you and essentially stalking all your socials, I was so comfortable with talking with you that I knew I needed to do it again! I think so many people who are struggling with their thoughts about non-monogamy can benefit so greatly from just hearing the words of someone who has actually been there and experienced it like you!! Human is the word, we all get down on ourselves sometimes and having a reminder from someone like you that we are headed in the right direction but still need to do the work is crucial. Can't wait to see what is next!
I was referred to Dr. Rachael by a close friend, and it was the best decision I could make. Rachael helped my marriage succeed while opening it up; she was so understanding and patient with us. We were able to work through our biggest issues with her help, and now we are in a happy healthy place with our little polycule. I would highly recommend Rachael to anyone who is in this process of opening up, she is very knowledgeable and helped me feel less crazy.
We are Char, Josh, and Liv of Throuple Talk Podcast. Dr. Rachael Meir's professional expertise combined with her years of personal experience in a committed Throuple have made her our ideal relationship coach! We recommend her to everyone who is in a throuple relationship, as well as those who to be someday. Thank you Dr. Meir for everything you do for those of us in the Throuple community! You are invaluable to us!
Real Stories From Real Students
After my 20•minute meeting with you and essentially stalking all your socials I was so comfortable with talking with you that I knew I needed to do it again! I think so many people who are struggling with their thoughts about non-monogamy can benefit so greatly from just hearing the words of someone who has actually been there and experienced it like you!! Human is the word, we all get down on ourselves sometimes and having a reminder from someone like you that we are headed in the right direction but still need to do the work is crucial. Can't wait to see what is next!
I was referred to Dr. Rachael by a close friend, and it was the best decision I could make. Rachael helped my marriage succeed while opening it up; she was so understanding and patient with us. We were able to work through our biggest issues with her help, and now we are in a happy healthy place with our little polycule. I would highly recommend Rachael to anyone who is in this process of opening up,she is very knowledgeable and helped me feel less crazy.
We are Char, Josh, and Liv of Throuple Talk Podcast. Dr. Rachael Meir's professional expertise combined with her years of personal experience in a committed Throuple have made her our ideal relationship coach! We recommend her to everyone who is in a throuple relationship, as well as those who to be someday. Thank you Dr. Meir for everything you do for those of us in the Throuple community! You are invaluable to us!
Real Stories From Real Students
After my 20•minute meeting with you and essentially stalking all your socials, I was so comfortable with talking with you that I knew I needed to do it again! I think so many people who are struggling with their thoughts about non-monogamy can benefit so greatly from just hearing the words of someone who has actually been there and experienced it like you!! Human is the word, we all get down on ourselves sometimes and having a reminder from someone like you that we are headed in the right direction but still need to do the work is crucial. Can't wait to see what is next!
I was referred to Dr. Rachael by a close friend, and it was
the best decision I could make. Rachael helped my marriage succeed while opening it up; she was so understanding and patient with us. We were able to work
through our biggest issues with her help, and now we are
in a happy healthy place with our little polycule. I would highly recommend Rachael to anyone who is in this process of opening up, she is very knowledgeable and
helped me feel less crazy.
We are Char, Josh, and Liv of Throuple Talk Podcast. Dr. Rachael Meir's professional expertise combined with her
years of personal experience in a committed Throuple have made her our ideal relationship coach! We recommend her to everyone who is in a throuple relationship, as well as those who to be someday. Thank you Dr. Meir for everything you do for those of us in the Throuple community! You are invaluable to us!
Your Roadmap to Empowered Non-Monogamy:
What You'll Master with the DEFY™️ Method
This self-paced course contains easy-to-follow video lessons, presentation, exercises, and handouts.
Module 1: Ditch The Doubts
Uncover the myths holding you back, build trust in yourself and your relationships.
Lessons Included:
- Busting myths and challenging common misconceptions about Ethical Non-Monogamy.
- Demystifying jealousy and transforming insecurity.
- Building healthy self-esteem and trust within relationships.
Module 2: Express With Ease
Get answers to your toughest communication questions. Navigate those first difficult conversations. Feel more confident in setting boundaries and managing conflict gracefully.
Lessons Included:
- Finding the right words for open and honest dialogue.
- Defining your needs, limits, and expectations.
- Resolving conflict for smoother journeys. Transforming disagreements into opportunities for growth.
Module 3: Find Your Fearless
Brave judgment (from yourself and others), find your voice, and discover your supportive community.
Lessons Included:
- Braving judgment and finding your voice.
- Discovering your community and navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy landscape.
- Enjoying the journey of self-discovery and self-compassion.
Module 4: Yes! To Your Authentic Self
Explore what Ethical Non-Monogamy means to YOU. Define your values and step into your power.
Lessons Included:
- Why Ethical Non-Monogamy for Me?
- Aligning actions with your values.
- Balancing new connections with existing relationships.
Your Roadmap to Empowered Non-Monogamy:
What You'll Master with the DEFY™️ Method
This self-paced course contains easy-to-follow video lessons, presentation, exercises, and handouts.
Module 1: Ditch The Doubts
Uncover the myths holding you back, build trust in yourself and you relationships.
Lessons Included:
- Busting myths ang challenging common misconceptions about ENM.
- Demystifying jealousy and transforming insecurity.
- Building healthy self-esteem and trust within relationships.
Module 2: Express With Ease
Get answers to your toughest communication questions. Navigate those first difficult conversations. Feel more confident in setting boundaries and managing conflict gracefully.
Lessons Included:
- Finding the right words for open and honest dialogue.
- Defining your needs, limits, and expectations.
- Resolving conflict for smoother journeys. Transforming disagreements into opportunities for growth.
Module 3: Find Your Fearless
Brave judgment (from yourself and others), find your voice, and discover your supportive community.
Lessons Included:
- Braving judgment and finding your voice.
- Discovering your community and navigating ENM landscape.
- Enjoying the journey of self-discovery and self-compassion.
Module 4: Yes! To Your Authentic Self
Explore what ENM means to YOU. Define your values and step into your power.
Lessons Included:
- Why ENM for Me?
- Aligning actions with your values.
- Balancing new connections with existing relationships.
Your Roadmap to Empowered Non-Monogamy:
What You'll Master with the DEFY™️ Method
This self-paced course contains easy-to-follow video lessons, presentation, exercises, and handouts.
Module 1: Ditch The Doubts
Uncover the myths holding you back, build trust in yourself and you relationships.
Lessons Included:
- Busting myths ang challenging common misconceptions about Ethical Non-Monogamy.
- Demystifying jealousy and transforming insecurity.
- Building healthy self-esteem and trust within relationships.
Module 2: Express With Ease
Get answers to your toughest communication questions. Navigate those first difficult conversations. Feel more confident in setting boundaries and managing conflict gracefully.
Lessons Included:
- Finding the right words for open and honest dialogue.
- Defining your needs, limits, and expectations.
- Resolving conflict for smoother journeys. Transforming disagreements into opportunities for growth.
Module 3: Find Your Fearless
Brave judgment (from yourself and others), find your voice, and discover your supportive community.
Lessons Included:
- Braving judgment and finding your voice.
- Discovering your community and navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy landscape.
- Enjoying the journey of self-discovery and self-compassion.
Module 4: Yes! To Your Authentic Self
Explore what Ethical Non-Monogamy means to YOU. Define your values and step into your power.
Lessons Included:
- Why Ethical Non-Monogamy for Me?
- Aligning actions with your values.
- Balancing new connections with existing relationships.
You After DEFY™️
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Jealousy feels less threatening. You understand it and use it for growth.
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Conflict becomes an opportunity to strengthen bonds.
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Fear of judgment fades, replaced by confident authenticity.
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You radiate joy and connection, building the love life you truly desire.
You After DEFY™️
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Jealousy feels less threatening. You understand it and use it for growth.
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Conflict becomes an opportunity to strengthen bonds.
-
Fear of judgment fades, replaced by confident authenticity.
-
You radiate joy and connection, building the love life you truly desire.
You After DEFY™️
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Jealousy feels less threatening. You understand it and use it for growth.
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Conflict becomes an opportunity to strengthen bonds.
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Fear of judgment fades, replaced by confident authenticity.
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You radiate joy and connection, building the love life you truly desire.
Essentials: Self-Guided Journey + Monthly Coaching
Start Your Ethical
Non-Monogamy Journey
Gain monthly access to the DEFY™ Method Course (Modules unlock over time)
Downloadable Personal Ethical Non-Monogamy Toolkit: Worksheets, Exercises, & Prompts to Guide Your Journey
Join exclusive monthly group coaching calls for Q&A, support, and connection
Flexible Membership – Stay as Long as You Need
Your Investment: $49/month
(Cancel anytime)
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Your Fast Track to Fulfilling
Ethical Non-Monogamy
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Essentials, Plus...
Gain instant access to the complete DEFY™ Method Course materials
6 Private Coaching Sessions with Dr. Rachael Meir to Deepen Your Ethical Non-Monogamy Understanding & Growth
Access to daily support with video messaging (Marco Polo)
Your Investment: $1597
(Get bigger savings!)
Essentials (Self-Guided):
Start Your Ethical Non-Monogamy Journey
Gain monthly access to the DEFY™ Method Course (Modules unlock over time)
Downloadable Personal Ethical Non-Monogamy Toolkit: Worksheets, Exercises, & Prompts to Guide Your Journey
Join exclusive monthly group coaching calls for Q&A, support, and connection
Flexible Membership – Stay as Long as You Need
Your Investment:
$49/month
Personalized Transformation (VIP)
Your Fast Track to Fulfilling Ethical Non-Monogamy
Everything in the
Essentials, Plus...
Gain instant access to the complete DEFY™ Method Course materials
6 Private Coaching Sessions with Dr. Rachael Meir to Deepen Your Ethical Non-Monogamy Understanding & Accelerate Growth
Access to daily support with video messaging (Marco Polo)
Your Investment:
$1597
Essentials (Self-Guided):
Start Your ENM Journey
Instant access to the
DEFY™ Method Course Training Materials
Downloadable Personal ENM Toolkit: Worksheets, Exercises, & Prompts to Guide Your Journey
Your Investment:
$597
Personalized Transformation (VIP)
Your Fast Track to Fulfilling ENM
Everything in the
Essentials, Plus...
6 Private Coaching Sessions with Dr. Rachael Meir to Deepen Your ENM Understanding & Accelerate Growth
Access to daily support with video messaging (Marco Polo)
Total Value: $2397
Your Investment: $1597
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Ready to DEFY™️ conformity and embrace your non-monogamous adventure?
Ready to DEFY conformity and embrace your non-monogamous adventure?
Ready to DEFY™️ conformity and embrace your non-monogamous adventure?